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of Anger
(Third in a series on anger)
by
Earl & Diane Rodd
This pamphlet is the continuation of earlier pamphlets entitled, "Dealing with Anger" and "Conquering Anger". Home educating families have a special challenge in dealing with anger because family members interact so much with other. We can't ignore it as each family member goes his separate way each day. However, in God's sight, home educating families have a unqiue opportunity to witness to the power of the Gospel to deliver us from anger. This pamphlet is a practical guide to prayer which we trust will be "The Way Out of Anger" for readers.
The Way Out of Anger
(Third in a series)
Families Honoring Christ
Earl & Diane Rodd
6044 Pine Creek St. N.W. North Canton, OH 44720
Phone: (330) 305-9318
4th edition - July 1996
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Ephesians 3:14
14. For this reason, I bow my knees before the Father,
15. from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name,
16. that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man;
17. so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; {and} that you, being rooted and grounded in love,
18. may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth,
19. and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fulness of God.
20. Now to Him who is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us,
21. to Him {be} the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.
John 10:10
10. "The thief comes only to steal, and kill, and destroy; I came that they might have life, and might have {it} abundantly.
Psalms 18:31
31. For who is God, but the \Lord\? And who is a rock, except our God,
32. The God who girds me with strength, And makes my way blameless?
I Thessalonians 5:23
23. Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
24. Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass.
James 4:5
5. Or do you think that the Scripture speaks to no purpose: "He jealously desires the Spirit which He has made to dwell in us"?
6. But He gives a greater grace. Therefore {it} says, "\God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.\"
7. Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
I John 5:7
7. And it is the Spirit who bears witness, because the Spirit is the truth.
Psalms 18:16
16. He sent from on high, He took me; He drew me out of many waters.
17. He delivered me from my strong enemy, And from those who hated me, for they were too mighty for me.
18. They confronted me in the day of my calamity, But the \Lord\ was my stay.
19. He brought me forth also into a broad place; He rescued me, because He delighted in me.
Romans 8:1
1. There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
2. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death.
Psalms 18:25
25. With the kind Thou dost show Thyself kind; With the blameless Thou dost show Thyself blameless;
26. With the pure Thou dost show Thyself pure; And with the crooked Thou dost show Thyself astute.
27. For Thou dost save an afflicted people; But haughty eyes Thou dost abase.
28. For Thou dost light my lamp; The \Lord\ my God illumines my darkness.
Romans 16:17
17. Now I urge you, brethren, keep your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them.
18. For such men are slaves, not of our Lord Christ but of their own appetites; and by their smooth and flattering speech they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting.
19. For the report of your obedience has reached to all; therefore I am rejoicing over you, but I want you to be wise in what is good, and innocent in what is evil.
20. And the God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. The grace of our Lord Jesus be with you.
Isaiah 26:5
5. "For He has brought low those who dwell on high, the unassailable city; He lays it low, He lays it low to the ground, He casts it to the dust.
6. "The foot will trample it, The feet of the afflicted, the steps of the helpless."
I John 5:2
2. By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and observe His commandments.
3. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome.
4. For whatever is born of God overcomes the world; and this is the victory that has overcome the world-- our faith.
5. And who is the one who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?
I John 4:18
18. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love.
Revelation 22:14
14. Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life, and may enter by the gates into the city.
Isaiah 26:1
1. In that day this song will be sung in the land of Judah: #"We have a strong city; He sets up walls and ramparts for security.
2. "Open the gates, that the righteous nation may enter, The one that remains faithful.
3. "The steadfast of mind Thou wilt keep in perfect peace, Because he trusts in Thee.
4. "Trust in the \Lord\ forever, For in \God\ the \Lord,\ {we have} an everlasting Rock.
Jeremiah 17:5
5. Thus says the \Lord\, #"Cursed is the man who trusts in mankind And makes flesh his strength, And whose heart turns away from the \Lord.\
6. "For he will be like a bush in the desert And will not see when prosperity comes, But will live in stony wastes in the wilderness, A land of salt without inhabitant.
7. "Blessed is the man who trusts in the \Lord\ And whose trust is the \Lord.\
8. "For he will be like a tree planted by the water, That extends its roots by a stream And will not fear when the heat comes; But its leaves will be green, And it will not be anxious in a year of drought Nor cease to yield fruit.
Isaiah 26:11
11. O \Lord\, Thy hand is lifted up {yet} they do not see it. They see {Thy} zeal for the people and are put to shame; Indeed, fire will devour Thine enemies.
12. \Lord\, Thou wilt establish peace for us, Since Thou hast also performed for us all our works.
13. O \Lord\ our God, other masters besides Thee have ruled us; {But} through Thee alone we confess Thy name.
Luke 22:39
39. And He came out and proceeded as was His custom to the Mount of Olives; and the disciples also followed Him.
40. And when He arrived at the place, He said to them, "Pray that you may not enter into temptation."
41. And He withdrew from them about a stone's throw, and He knelt down and {began} to pray,
42. saying, "Father, if Thou art willing, remove this cup from Me; yet not My will, but Thine be done."
43. Now an angel from heaven appeared to Him, strengthening Him.
44. And being in agony He was praying very fervently; and His sweat became like drops of blood, falling down upon the ground.
45. And when He rose from prayer, He came to the disciples and found them sleeping from sorrow,
46. and said to them, "Why are you sleeping? Rise and pray that you may not enter into temptation."
Matthew 26:36
36. Then Jesus *came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and *said to His disciples, "Sit here while I go over there and pray."
37. And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be grieved and distressed.
38. Then He *said to them, "My soul is deeply grieved, to the point of death; remain here and keep watch with Me."
39. And He went a little beyond {them,} and fell on His face and prayed, saying, "My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; yet not as I will, but as Thou wilt."
40. And He *came to the disciples and *found them sleeping, and *said to Peter, "So, you {men} could not keep watch with Me for one hour?
41. "Keep watching and praying, that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak."
42. He went away again a second time and prayed, saying, "My Father, if this cannot pass away unless I drink it, Thy will be done."
43. And again He came and found them sleeping, for their eyes were heavy.
44. And He left them again, and went away and prayed a third time, saying the same thing once more.
Fill me with your Holy Spirit that I might truly overcome.
Romans 8:26
26. And in the same way the Spirit also helps our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for {us} with groanings too deep for words;
27. and He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He intercedes for the saints according to {the will of} God.
28. And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to {His} purpose.
Lord, let me pray with the intensity of the Holy Spirit for the will of God to be accomplished in me and through my life on earth. Lord, give me the desire to seek You earnestly until Your will becomes my will in every area of my life.
Hebrews 12:1
1. Therefore, since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us also lay aside every encumbrance, and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
2. fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3. For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.
4. You have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood in your striving against sin;
5. and you have forgotten the exhortation which is addressed to you as sons, #"\My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord\, \Nor faint when you are reproved by Him\;
6. \For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines\, \And He scourges every son whom He receives.\ "#
Show me how to use Your written word as my sword to cut down every lie and deception that the enemy tries to use against me and my loved ones. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit. Apart from You I can do nothing.
James 5:16
16. Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.
17. Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain; and it did not rain on the earth for three years and six months.
18. And he prayed again, and the sky poured rain, and the earth produced its fruit.
19. My brethren, if any among you strays from the truth, and one turns him back,
20. let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save his soul from death, and will cover a multitude of sins.
Hebrews 2:17
17. Therefore, He had to be made like His brethren in all things, that He might become a merciful and faithful high priest in things pertaining to God, to make propitiation for the sins of the people.
18. For since He Himself was tempted in that which He has suffered, He is able to come to the aid of those who are tempted.
Hebrews 4:14
14. Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession.
15. For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as {we are, yet} without sin.
16. Let us therefore draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace to help in time of need.
I rely totally in Jesus' atoning work on the cross and the power of His resurrection life. I know that it is Christ in me and not anything else that accomplishes eternal fruit.
:vslrnp 1 Ephesians 5:1.
26. Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children;
27. and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for
us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.
Romans 8:11
11. But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who indwells you.
12. So then, brethren, we are under obligation, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh--
13. for if you are living according to the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live.
14. For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.
15. For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, "Abba! Father!"
16. The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,
17. and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with {Him} in order that we may also be glorified with {Him.}
18. For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.
II Corinthians 2:14
14. But thanks be to God, who always leads us in His triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place.
15. For we are a fragrance of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing;
Isaiah 55:2
2. "Why do you spend money for what is not bread, And your wages for what does not satisfy? Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good, And delight yourself in abundance.
3. "Incline your ear and come to Me. Listen, that you may live; And I will make an everlasting covenant with you, {According to} the faithful mercies shown to David.
4. "Behold, I have made him a witness to the peoples, A leader and commander for the peoples.
5. "Behold, you will call a nation you do not know, And a nation which knows you not will run to you, Because of the \Lord\ your God, even the Holy One of Israel; For He has glorified you."
6. Seek the \Lord\ while He may be found; Call upon Him while He is near.
7. Let the wicked forsake his way, And the unrighteous man his thoughts; And let him return to the \Lord\, And He will have compassion on him; And to our God, For He will abundantly pardon.
8. "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Neither are your ways My ways," declares the \Lord\.
9. "For {as} the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.
10. "For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven, And do not return there without watering the earth, And making it bear and sprout, And furnishing seed to the sower and bread to the eater;
11. So shall My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It shall not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding {in the matter} for which I sent it.
12. "For you will go out with joy, And be led forth with peace; The mountains and the hills will break forth into shouts of joy before you, And all the trees of the field will clap {their} hands.
13. "Instead of the thorn bush the cypress will come up; And instead of the nettle the myrtle will come up; And it will be a memorial to the \Lord\, For an everlasting sign which will not be cut off." #
Isaiah 56:1
1. Thus says the \Lord\, #"Preserve justice, and do righteousness, For My salvation is about to come And My righteousness to be revealed.